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Have you noticed blind students walking around town? Here’s what’s going on, and how you can help.

There is a local school for blind adults here in Richmond, and as part of their program, they often drop off their students in areas unfamiliar to them around the city.

Here’s some general etiquette outlined in the article, which applies to these students and to any blind person you encounter as a pedestrian:

- Do not force “assistance” or interaction on blind pedestrians. They are able to ask for help if they need it; if you impose, you are not being helpful, you are being invasive, offensive, and incorrect. As with anyone you meet in public, if you are worried for their safety, it is appropriate to politely ask if they would like assistance- but you must accept no for an answer.  

Just as you would never touch a sighted pedestrian without permission or usher someone across a street without being asked, don’t do these things to blind pedestrians.

- Obey regular traffic patterns when you see a blind pedestrian waiting to cross at an intersection. They are relying on audible clues to navigate, and causing a disruption in the pattern in a response to their presence is unhelpful and could be very dangerous to them. 

- Do not honk at a blind pedestrian to acknowledge them or say hello. This is both rude and dangerous. Use of the horn is a warning- if you use it frivolously  you can confuse and frighten others, and cause dangerous situations. 

While this was not covered in the article, here are some very basic rules regarding service dogs, which may accompany some (but not all) blind pedestrians, and many other people: 

- The dog is working. Do not distract the dog in any way- do not pet, offer treats, whistle, rustle food at it, try to play with it, or call to it. 

- You are talking to the person, not the dog. Except to navigate things like space requirements, or perhaps to ask if the handler would like a bowl of water set out for the dog (if you are working at a restaurant or business), don’t direct conversation to the dog. If you are in a business, like a restaurant or grocery store, do not exclaim over the dog- just keep doing what you’re doing. 

- Service dogs are allowed to come inside businesses, under the Americans with Disabilities Act. Business staff are allowed to ask if the dog is a service dog, but are not allowed to ask what functions the dog performs for the person. Staff may not ask to see paperwork. 

- Service dogs are highly trained, up to date on their shots, and nonaggressive. If a dog barks or growls, it may be doing its job and providing a warning or responding to a medical sign. Remain calm. 

- Don’t take pictures of a service dog team (dog and handler) without permission. Do not interrupt a person’s day by asking to take a picture of their dog.

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Yes, false rape accusations happen. Run the protocol anyway. I’ve heard that perhaps the military has the highest number of ‘em. True or not, RUN THE PROTOCOL ANYWAY. Because in 15 years of investigating rape accusations, I can count those that panned out as false on one hand. Meanwhile, the one time I almost skipped the protocol, the one time I almost didn’t believe a petty officer, because I was naive as an investigator and a young woman, because her commanding officer described her as “a party girl, always late, always out drinking, don’t bother with this one”, she turned out to be the victim of one of the most brutal assaults I’ve ever investigated. She shouldn’t have still been -alive-, let alone up and making the accusation. So let me repeat: five false accounts in fifteen years. And one time I almost failed a woman ‘cause of the bullshit way it’s normal to talk about us. Take your shipmates’ word, and then run the protocol. Every. Single. Time.  - JAG lawyer, speaking to my husband’s plant during Sexual Assault Prevention Month. (via circusbones)

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how to be spiritual: get dreads, put on a bindi and an om necklace, maybe a piercing or two, say namaste a lot, smoke lots of weed/do other drugs completely ignoring the fact that the original versions of the warped/westernized versions of the religions you’re “following” say that you shouldn’t use drugs to attain a spiritual state………………

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and they can say “namaste!!!” to my steel-toed Doc Marten boots coming down on their faces.

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White people get mad when you wear a band t shirt of a band you don’t listen to, but they’re fine with wearing headdresses from cultures they know and care nothing about.

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Capitalism would have us believe that we only deserve to be here because of what we produce, and even in our counter- cultures, even in our movements we reproduce the same idea. We only deserve to be here because of what we can produce that other people will buy with their money, time or attention. Our experience of our own lives is secondary, it is only the means of production, it is the products that matter, and unless we make ourselves into both factories and widgets we are not valuable. Alexis Pauline Gumbs (via satyacake)

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  • What Kelly Rowland sang: I was in an abusive relationship. He was both emotionally and physically abusive. He was mentally manipulative, turning me against my best friend/sister and telling me she was the last person in the world who loved me. I was feeling low at a time when she was doing really well and that led to some feelings of jealousy and devalued self-worth, especially when I felt like there was nobody I could talk to about it. But when I did let her know what was happening, she was right there by my side.
  • What the blogs report: KELLY ADMITS SHE WAS JEALOUS OF BEYONCE IN ANGRY, CURSE-LADEN RANT SHE DIDN'T EVEN WRITE; SHE'S A HATER.
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I don’t respect when feminists go, “Oh, we’re not like those radfems.” Well, if you’re not checking on your radfems, you’re just as bad. Being passive towards their bullshit towards trans* women and intersex women is just as bad as supporting their ideology.

I won’t use the terms “not real feminists” because you’re still feminist, just not a good one.

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